Spiritual Disciplines #12: Celebration

We have come to the end of the year and to the end of our study of Richard Foster’s book, Celebration of Discipline with the last discipline, the discipline of celebration.  The topic of celebration is appropriate this time of year as we prepare to celebrate the birth of Jesus. 

Celebration is a result of the joy we receive in obedience and the practice of the other disciplines.  Celebration is also a discipline in itself because we do not always feel like celebrating.

As most of us gather with family and friends to celebrate, we know that there are many who will find it hard to celebrate this year because of loved ones lost, loved ones absent or estranged, sickness, financial problems or any of a myriad of other personal and family issues.  Add to all of those the difficult political times in which we find ourselves.  To these people I would like to say that if your celebrations this year must be in a lower key, we understand.  Do what you have to do. 

However, I would also like to say that the spiritual discipline of celebration, especially the celebration of Christmas, is not about us, our family, or our circumstances, it’s about Jesus and the new hope that he brings to us and to the world in the midst of our circumstances.  Jesus birth itself was in the context of poverty, political oppression, and violent tragedy.  Jesus birth brings light to a world of darkness, hope to a world of despair, joy to a world of sorrow, peace to a world in conflict, and love to a world of hate.  All of that is cause for celebration regardless of our personal circumstances.  As I said before, your celebration may be in a lower key this year, and that might be a good idea for all of us in this sometimes crazy season, but celebrate we must. 

I wish you all a Blessed and Merry Christmas.

Spiritual Disciplines #11: Guidance

How do I know God’s will for my life?  That is the age-old question.  That is also the question which Richard Foster attempts to answer in the chapter entitled “Guidance” in his book, Celebration of Discipline.

          Guidance often begins with an impression or prompting in our spirit.  Sometimes it may be something we are inclined to and would enjoy doing, sometimes it is not.  In either case, we just “feel” like it is something we should do.  Sometimes it is a small thing like putting our pocket change in a Salvation Army kettle, taking the time to stop and help someone who has dropped their shopping, or a sudden thought to write or call someone with a word of encouragement; other times it is a big thing like starting a new ministry in your church or even being called into “professional” ministry.

          Unless it is a small spur-of-the-moment act of kindness, it is a good idea to meditate and pray about a prompting, to engage the mind in thinking, as well as the heart in feeling about it.  If it is of God, it will only get stronger.  It is also necessary to make sure to align the prompting with Scripture.  An old saying goes, “God’s will never contradicts God’s Word.”  I always put it this way: God is NOT calling you to rob the bank and give the money to the church!

          Foster includes guidance among the corporate disciplines in his book because guidance should always include a corporate element.  For any major spiritual decision, after we have consulted God’s Word, and thought and prayed about it, we check our calling with those we can trust to help us with discernment from our family and our church community.

          Not all promptings require a full-blown guidance process and not all the things God calls us to even require promptings.  It is always God’s will that we participate in church, family, and community.  It is always God’s will that we work hard at whatever we do and that we be kind, compassionate, and generous.  We do not have to wait for guidance to do those things.

          We need to do more in our church to be the kind of community that can offer spiritual guidance to one another.  I leave you with a couple of quotes I saw online recently, I do not know where they originally came from, “God’s will is what we would want if we knew what we wanted,” and, “God’s will is what you would want if you knew what God knows.”  

Spiritual Disciplines #10: Worship

            When most of us think of worship we think of music, or prayer, or sermons.  We might also think of a group of people gathered at a certain time and place for an event, or we may think of a worship service that is either traditional or contemporary, formal or informal, liturgical or non-liturgical.  All of those things are elements of worship, but worship itself is something bigger.

            The word worship comes from an old English word which means to ascribe worth to something.  To worship something or someone is to engage in a series of actions and attitudes that show that thing’s or that person’s worth.  In old English, one worshiped the king by bowing in his presence.  It was understood that to worship the king meant something different, lower, than worshiping God.

            Of course, in modern English we use the word worship only in reference to God.  God, and God alone, is the sole object and audience of our worship.  Worship is never about our personal preferences in music or style, but rather only about what is pleasing to God.  The good news is that God is pleased with many kinds of worship.

            I would like to offer you another definition of worship: Worship is what the soul does when it is aware of the presences of God.  We know that God is always present with us, but we are not always aware of God’s presence.  The things we do in worship singing, praying, preaching, are some ways that we can become aware of God’s presence.  These are what Richard Foster, in his book The Celebration of Discipline, calls “avenues to worship.”  These things are not worship itself, but they lead us to worship.  We all have different things that help us become aware of God’s presence and this is where different styles of worship and music come in.  We should all be willing to experience different worship and music from time to time.

            We should all gather for public worship whenever we can, we need each other.  However, each of us needs to worship each day, throughout the day, by becoming aware of God’s presence and doing those things that help make us aware and keep us aware of his presence.

            I would like to leave you this month with some of the lyrics of the Michael W, Smith song “The Heart of Worship.”

When the music fades

All is stripped away

And I simply come

Longing just to bring

Something that's of worth

That will bless your heart

I'll bring you more than a song

For a song in itself

Is not what you have required

You search much deeper within

Through the way things appear

You're looking into my heart

I'm coming back to the heart of worship

And it's all about you,

It's all about you, Jesus

I'm sorry, Lord, for the thing I've made it

When it's all about you,

It's all about you, Jesus

Spiritual Disciplines #9: Confession

          We now turn to the first of what Richard Foster, in his book, Celebration of Discipline, calls the corporate disciplines: the discipline of confession.

          Most of us have an idea of what confession is.  Confession is simply, after thorough self-examination, admitting our sin, as it says in the fifth step of twelve step programs, “to ourselves, to God, and to another human being.”  As hard as it is to confess our sins to ourselves and to God, confessing to another person is a downright terrifying idea for most of us.  We Protestants have been taught to be suspicious of the Roman Catholic idea of confessing our sins to a priest.  However, history has been teaching us that we Protestants may have thrown many babies out with the bathwater during the Reformation and that there is much wisdom in some of the practices we have rejected out of hand, even if some adjustments need to be made.

          It is true that many of our day-to-day sins can be dealt with “just between us and God,” but there may come a time when we need someone with whom to share our struggle and who can offer us assurance of God’s forgiveness.  That is why confession is both a private and a corporate discipline.  The Bible promises that if we confess our sins God will forgive us (1 John 1:9). The Bible encourages us to confess our sins to one another and pray for one another (James 5:16). The Bible gives us the authority to assure one another of God’s forgiveness (John 20:23).  While I am always ready to help anyone with this, the person to whom you confess need not be a pastor, any mature Christian can offer this. 

A couple pieces of advice in case you should be chosen by another to hear a confession.  Frist, listen, you are not there to trade stories or to share your experiences.  Second, take the sin seriously.  Third, you must not be shocked by the sin, nor should you act as if it is not a big deal.  Fourth, offer assurance of God’s grace and forgiveness.  Fifth, and most importantly, keep your conversation confidential.  The only exception to this would be if you are concerned about someone’s safety.  If that is the case, ask them to go with you to the pastor, or other appropriate authority.  If they will not go with you, tell them that you are going anyway and do so immediately.

As I said, this may be uncomfortable territory for most of us, but it is what it takes for us to truly be the church for one another and for our community. 

Pastor Brian.

Spiritual Disciplines #8: Service

          In Celebration of Discipline, Richard Foster uses the story of Jesus washing the disciples’ feet from John 13:1-17 as the ultimate illustration of the spiritual discipline of service.  The context that Foster gives for this story is the ongoing discussion among the disciples, recorded in many places in the gospels, about which of them is the greatest and which of them is the least.

          The act of foot washing was not just a ritual or cultural thing in Jesus’ time; in a desert climate where everybody wore sandals, if any shoes at all, it was a practical necessity.  As an act of basic hospitality, a host would provide a servant, the lowest servant in the house, maybe even a child, to wash the feet of the guests as they arrived.  At the very least, the host would have a basin available for the guest to wash their own feet.

          Neither servant nor basin was present as Jesus and the disciples gathered in the upper room that night, and none of the disciples, who were all still trying after three years to figure out their pecking order, was about to volunteer.  Of course, if Jesus had asked one of them to wash feet, I am sure that one would have said, “My privilege, Lord,” while simultaneously thinking two very different things in his heart, “Why does Jesus always make me do all the dirty work?” and, “Ha-ha, guys look who Jesus picked!”  (Foster will go on in the chapter to talk about the difference between selfish and selfless service.)

          Then Jesus himself, who “knew that the Father had put all things under his power, and that he had come from God and was returning to God (John 10:3),” got up and performed the service needed. (All true godly service comes from a secure knowledge of who we are in Christ.  Insecure people may try to get attention by service, but they can never truly serve.) 

Peter’s head almost explodes!  Peter is unable to accept service.  Sometimes, it takes as much humility, or more, to allow other people the opportunity to serve as it does to serve.  In a way, allowing others to serve us may itself be a form of service.  If service is a spiritual discipline that each of us needs to practice in order to grow in faith, then how will any of us grow if we do not allow ourselves to be served sometimes?

          Jesus message is simple: my followers serve others.  In serving others we build the spiritual virtue of humility.  We serve not because people need to be served, and certainly not because they deserve it, but because we need to serve.  We do not serve primarily to “help people” or to “make the world a better place,” and certainly not to make ourselves, or our church, feel good or look good.  We serve because service glorifies God and makes us better disciples.  The fact that people are helped and the world is made better are blessings that God adds to our service.  So, go and find a person or a place to serve today.  Start small, but get started.      

Spiritual Disciplines #7: Submission

Submission is not a popular word.  For many of us, the word submission conjures up imagines of abuses of power, past and present, in government, in workplaces, in families, and even in churches.  In Celebration of Discipline, Richard Foster is quick to say that when authority is being destructive, when it is hurting people, submission is not required and, in fact, resistance might be necessary.

All of that, however, does not relieve us from the responsibility of practicing the spiritual discipline of submission.  Often, I have found that the people to whom I am being called to submit are not evil, they are simply mistaken, or not even mistaken, they are just not doing things the way I would do them.  One of the hardest things, I think, for young people to learn is that their boss may not be as smart as they are, yet they must do as they say.  If it is not an issue of moral compromise, we must submit to proper authority.  When it is an issue of moral compromise, we must “obey God rather than people,” (Acts 5:29) and be ready to face the consequences.

Foster says that the great benefit of submission is that it relieves us from the burden of having to be in charge all the time.  It is simply letting another have their way and not insisting that we get our own way all the time.

Foster also says that Christian submission is founded in Christian freedom.  The Christian voluntarily submits to authority, God’s authority and human authority, following the example of Jesus Christ who “became obedient unto death, even death on a cross.” (Philippians 2:8)  

It is through this lens that we can understand commands in the New Testament like “slaves obey your masters” (Ephesians 6:5 and others) which is given “for the sake of the gospel.” (1 Corinthians 9:23)  Clearly, Jesus was not in favor of slavery, but his message to slaves was, “You are free, and now because you are free, submit for the sake of the gospel.”  If the infant church in the first century Roman Empire would have gone around telling slaves not to obey their masters, it would have hindered the spread of the gospel and it would not have ended well for the slaves. 

Of course, these verses should never have been used to condone slavery as such, but we can transfer this idea of submission into our modern working world.  Christians should be the best and most obedient citizens and employees for the sake of the gospel, except when asked to make a moral compromise.  The better citizens and employees we are, the more attractive the gospel is and the more God receives the glory.  By the way, I employee the same logic as above to understand the New Testament passages about the status and role of women.  “Wives submit to your husbands” (Ephesians 5:22) meant something different in the first century than it does in the twenty-first century.

Our first submission is to God and God’s Word.  Then we are called to submit to our families, our church, our employers, and to our government at various levels.  When we submit for the sake of Jesus Christ, we become more Christ-like and we draw others to Christ.

Spiritual Disciplines #6: Solitude/Silence

           In Psalm 46:10 God says, “Be still and know that I am God,” but we live in a world in which stillness is simply not tolerated. If we have even a moment of unoccupied time out comes the smart phone or in go the earbuds.  I am as guilty of this as anybody.

However, if we take Psalm 46:10 literally, we might conclude that the only way to know God is to be still.  If we feel the need to constantly entertain (distract) ourselves, we will not be able to know God at a deep level.  The reason for this is that, while God can and does often speak to us through other people and various forms of media, God connects to us most deeply in our inner thought life when we take time to turn our thoughts toward him.

Of course, Psalm 46:10 is also true if we turn it around.  We are able to be still when we know that God is God, that God is in control, that God can and will take care of us.  We can be still when we trust that God can run the universe without our help.  Psalm 46:10 invites us to be still in order to know God better and, because we know God, to be still.

As I have said, stillness, silence, and solitude does not come easy for most of us.  For this reason, in Celebration of Discipline, Richard Foster recommends that we begin by taking advantage of the “little solitudes” of daily life.  Perhaps the next time we have to make a long drive by ourselves, we might for some of the time, leave the radio off and allow God to speak to us in our thoughts.  To get started just take five minutes to be quiet and still and think about Psalm 46:10.  Soon enough you may find that you can pass longer periods of time alone with God.